“I Thought I Was Microchipped”: Abusers Use “Parental Control” Apps to Spy on Partners

A disturbing trend is emerging where abusers are using “parental control” apps, marketed for monitoring children’s online activity, to spy on their partners. These apps, often downloaded onto the victim’s phone without their knowledge, allow abusers to track location, monitor calls and messages, and even access the victim’s camera remotely.

Victims report feeling constantly surveilled, with their every move tracked and analyzed. One woman, speaking anonymously, shared, “I felt like I was living in a surveillance state. I thought I was microchipped, I was so paranoid.”

Experts warn that these apps, designed for legitimate purposes like protecting children, are being weaponized by abusers to exert control and isolate their victims. They can be used to monitor conversations, restrict access to information, and even manipulate the victim’s behavior.

This practice raises serious concerns about privacy and safety. Victims are often unaware they are being monitored, leaving them vulnerable and unable to seek help.

Advocates are calling for increased awareness of this issue, urging technology companies to implement stricter safeguards to prevent the misuse of these apps. They also emphasize the need for education and support for victims of domestic abuse, helping them understand their rights and access resources.